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What Moms REALLY Want for Valentine's Day

2/14/2017

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Sure, chocolate and flowers and jewelry are nice. But they're all about romance, and commercialism. And that's not what MOST moms really want, or need. But what do moms actually want for Valentine's Day, birthdays, Mother's Day, or any day, for that matter?? I asked and you answered, check out this hilarious montage from YOU AWESOME MAMAS!!! Turns out nothing says love like changing some stinky diapers while mama naps, has coffee, and showers in peace!
Huge shoutout to the lovely, brave, and hilarious mamas who contributed to this video!!
  • Rhianon of Brooklyn BoyMom
  • Alison of Peace, Love & Literacy
  • Shalynn of The Palm Tree Mama
  • Megan of Battista Bookworms
  • Mary
  • Linda
  • Nicole
  • Andrea
  • ​Malgosia

How about you? What do you want for Valentine's Day? What have been some awesome (or not so awesome) things you've received?? Leave a comment below!!

Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to my YouTube channel - I do lots of fun montage videos like this as well as family-friendly travel, product reviews, and cute stuff featuring my 3 littles!!
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Embracing Your Mom Bod

3/25/2016

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When you grow a human in your belly, things change. Some things are temporary and some are permanent. From stretch marks to hair loss, many women struggle with low self-esteem over their new "mom bod," and this saddens me greatly.

​To me, each tiger stripe is a reminder of your most wonderful accomplishment. That remaining "baby bump" brought life and completed your family. So, acknowledge your imperfections, stay fit and eat mindfully, but embrace your mom bod for what it is: beautiful, strong, loving, and amazingly awesome!!

With the help of a few mom friends, I've put together the following video to encourage moms to love themselves and their bodies. I hope you'll help the #MyMomBodIs movement by commenting below and sharing this blog post and video! Thank you!!
Related: 
  • What Your Belly Looks Like After Twins
  • What they don't tell you to expect when you're expecting (and afterward)
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Grocery Shopping With 3 Under 3

12/29/2015

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We're in Brooklyn without a car, so we have always just done grocery shopping at the nearest shop (a 15 minute walk). When I found out we were having twins, I thought for sure we'd have to switch to online grocery shopping and delivery by the end of the pregnancy, but somehow I endured! Now I've got 3 little ones and am STILL managing to get to the grocery store almost every day. Here's how it goes:
Here's an article I wrote for Mommy Nearest with online grocery shopping options. It just pains me to spend $5-10 extra per order. We might switch eventually, but for now, if you see me in the store, and I mean this in the nicest way - GET OUTTA MY WAAAAAAY!!! hehe

Shoutout to StrollAir MyDuo stroller, the Englacha X-Rider toddler board/seat, and the WeeGo Twin Carrier!! Without them, we'd be screwed!
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Tips for Surviving Life with Newborn Twins

12/3/2015

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Life with a newborn is no joke. Life with newborn twins? Well, it's not infinitesimally harder, but it's harder... a LOT harder! I now have two months under my belt and feel I'm ready to pass along some of my tips and tricks to those about to embark on the adventure! 

Babywearing!
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You can go with any infant compatible carrier for when one baby is fussy and needs to be held. Personally I love the Moby and Mei Tai. But when BOTH infants need to be held and you need to be mobile and/or hands free? You have way less options. If you're very skilled (or have the patience to sit through a bunch of YouTube tutorials and practice practice practice) you can try wearing both babies in a Moby or other kind of wrap. I tried, and failed. It was quite humbling. So I stuck with the WeeGo Twin Carrier, the only one made specifically for two infants. It's not the most comfortable thing in the world, or perhaps I'm not wearing it right? All the weight is on my shoulders, but still I wear it at least an hour a day. Sometimes you have two overtired and screaming babies and the only way to get them to both calm down and go to sleep at the same time is babywearing and the WeeGo has been a life-saver for me!!

Don't let them get overtired!
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Babies cry for many reasons, many of which we are hard wired to check for. They're hungry (look for hunger cues such as hands at mouth, sticking out tongues, smacking lips, etc), they have a dirty diaper (pinch / sniff the diaper or take a peek), they're too hot (check for sweaty neck), or they're too cold (hands and feet are not a good indicator since newborns have poor circulation - instead stick your hand in and feel their belly or back to make sure it's warm). You may also have a colicky baby or sporadic gas (be sure to burp them several times at feeding, and try laying them on your lap with head face up by your knees and feet toward your belly and then rotate their legs in a bicycle motion - this can help work out the gas).

But in my household, if they're fed and changed and still crying, they are simply overtired. They may not look it. They may not have "sleepy eyes" or be yawning, but they need to sleep... desperately... even more than I do! It's amazing how much time flies and how little awake time newborns can handle. In the first month, they are pretty much only awake for feeding. After that, awake time gradually grows but even at 2 months my little ones cannot handle much more than 1 hour of awake time. If we pass 90 minutes they start flipping out and will not go down without a fight (which is when I resort to the WeeGo carrier mentioned above!). 


Stay organized but don't stress over schedules!
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I went to twin prep classes by Twiniversity and Twin Love Concierge and they both had some really great charts for keeping track of feedings, diapers, medicine, sleep, etc. Using those as guides I created one that was more tailored to what I needed to keep track of, and I filled it out religiously for the first week. I quickly realized the sleep portion of it was a pain in the butt - newborns doze in and out, it was doing my head in! For me, keeping track of feedings (which baby took which boob and at what time) and how many poo/pee diapers they had was most important. After a month, I was only keeping track of feedings. And now at 2 months I've stopped the charting altogether. That said, I will keep track of feedings, diapers, and sleep for 2 days prior to each check up since the nurse always asks for those numbers and you don't want to feel like a big dummy (which I always do - "Ummmm 5? 10? I have no idea!!!")

Most twin parents say getting babies on a schedule is key, and you can try straight from birth but it may not be worth the stress. My babies had a terrible latch and were not gaining weight the first two weeks so I had to give up tandem nursing for a "laid back" position and on top of that I had to pump to supplement. By one month they were both on track for weight and we were back to exclusively breastfeeding. The doc OK'd me to not wake them at night, but when one baby was up I made sure to get the other one up so they were on the same schedule at night. I kept the room fairly dark at night with the sound machine on, which was their cue that it was nighttime, and they never did get their days and nights confused. We were VERY lucky there! During the day though, I still haven't bothered with getting them on the same schedule. I actually kind of prefer when they are opposite since I can enjoy feeding and bonding with one baby while the other is peacefully sleeping. But we will probably be attempting a schedule soon, the flexible 3-hour "eat-play-sleep" BabyWise schedule worked well for my son from about 8 weeks so we may try that soon.


Stay positive!
It's very easy to get down, way down. You're not getting enough sleep, you may not know (yet) how to easily comfort your babies, they may be crying... a LOT. It's hard. It's VERY hard. But you know what? It WILL get better. In fact, one day you'll look back on this period and think, "Man, I miss it! I miss when they were itty bitty babies! I miss when they NEEDED me and we could just sit and rock and cuddle." So, when you're up every two hours with the babies throughout the night and you feel like "THIS IS THE WORST!!!!!! I FEEL LIKE I'M GONNA DIE" just take a moment to look at your precious little babies and realize this is truly the longest shortest time and despite the many hard and terrible parts of it, it's also amazing and wonderful and something to be cherished. Pause for a moment when you're changing a diaper to just stare into your little ones eyes, to squeeze those chicken legs getting chubbier every day, and coo at each other. When you're feeding them, put down your phone and just embrace the moment. Or pick that phone back up and take a few pix!
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Just found out you're having twins? Don't miss my post on "​How to Prepare for Having TWINS!" and "My Positive Twin Birth Story" to give you some encouragement! And have you seen my "Twin Pregnancy Progression Time Lapse Video"? You may wanna try creating one, too!! And here's a glimpse into our life with newborn twins and a toddler...
Do you have tips for surviving life with newborn twins? Questions? Leave a comment below!!
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Seen The US Japan Fam YouTube Channel?

11/20/2015

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Until very recently, my YouTube channel was just a place to upload videos of product reviews for my blog. But when my twin pregnancy progression stop motion time lapse video went viral a couple of weeks ago (over 140K views on my channel, over 4.5 million views on The Daily Share's version of it, and articles on HuffPost UK and Parents Magazine), it inspired me to get my feet wet in the vlogosphere!

Here's one I did giving a peak into the (very unglamorous) world of being a mom to 3 under 3, more specifically newborn twins and a toddler!
And here is my spin on the crazy Surprise Egg trend, a game we call Happy Halloweaster. I fill up plastic Easter eggs with random stuff from around the house and hide the eggs, which my toddler then runs around and collects in his Halloween basket. He then opens them up and no matter how many times we do this (sometimes 10+ times in a row) he is always super excited! It's a great rainy day or snow day activity!
And in case you haven't seen it yet (what are you living under a rock??) here is my twin pregnancy progression video!
If you like what you see, please please please subscribe to my channel, and oh yeah "like", share, and comment on the videos!! THANK YOU!!!

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